Sonny Puzikas - Conflict Management-1
Conflict Management 1
Conflict is often described as an event in which the proverbial merde hits the proverbial oscillator... Quite an accurat
This course is much more than "verbal judo". Participants will receive a primer to training methodology dealing with the situations that could potentia
To fully understand the concepts of efficient management of conflict, one must discern:
- What/who is the "merde"? And what/who is the fan?
- Which one are you in the context of the conflict?
- And what determines how big of a mess it will be?
To affect a course of action requires one to clearly understand the following:
1. The nature of the conflict
2. The purpose of the conflict
3. The origins of the conflict
4. The pillars of the violence
Words, posture, body language, positioning - all of that and much more are the ingredients that will have an effect on the direction of the conflict.
These are trained skills.
Through well-structured, interactive lectures and scenario training you will embark on the path of learning to exercise more control in the event of a conflict in your life - from a casual workplace argument with a colleague, to a potentially deadly engagement with a criminal assailant.
This process is not unlike the physical fight - a high level performance on many levels is required to prevail.
Society instructs us to be goal-oriented. This makes us anxious. A goal is in the future. It is an illusion. It cannot be controlled. It- that elusive goal - can only be influenced by what we do.
So too are the consequences. Worrying about the outcome is akin to making payments on a loan you have not yet applied for.
Performance is in the "now". It is the present. Focus on performance improvement.
Better performance will lead to a positive outcome - closer to that goal.
Some of the topics to be covered:
- The lead in the conflict
- Rhythm and timing of the conflict situation
- Breaking it down
- Direction and destination
- Reset buttons
Bring note taking materials, training handgun, have your everyday carry items on you.